Creating An Online Dating Profile

Taking the time to create an engaging online dating profile that contains a well-crafted bio with appealing photographs may make you stand out from the crowd. Your profile is vital, says San Francisco Bay area dating and relationship coach Maya Diamond, because it says who you are and what kind of relationship you want. Get A New friends So rather than focusing on the 'type' of relationship you want, use your credit background to do the actual work, like choosing your profile picture. Show off your successes online and enjoy the potential of dating with confidence, knowing that you know your credit score.

• Creating An Online Dating Profile For Women
• What To Say In A Dating Profile

The first week of January is the busiest week of the year for online dating, with registrations up 18 percent compared to the week of Christmas. While the holidays can be a hectic time, those first days of 2016 are a great time to get your online dating profile in tip top shape so you can hit the ground running in the new year. Below, you’ll find 2015’s best dating tips to help you find love in 2016.

If you have 1 week:

• Upload a variety of photos that clearly show who you are, including a full body shot which increases messages received by 203%.
• Take advantage of opportunities to showcase that your profile is authentic.
• Start using the site as much as possible to improve your matches.
• Create a descriptive profile that steers clear of clichés, like “I’m down to earth” and uses solid examples that highlight your personality, like “I love spaghetti and hiking with my dog Rufus.”

If you have 1 day:

• Upload a variety of photos, including a full body shot.
• Get your photo verified.
• Pick the time of day you send any initial messages wisely. Singles are least responsive during the afternoon slump of 2-3pm.
• Fill out your profile with as much detail as possible, honing in on key examples that set you apart from the crowd.

If you have 1 hour:

• Upload at least two photos, and make sure one of them is a full body shot.
• Get your photo verified. This process only takes a couple minutes and is great way to show potential suitors you’re the real deal.
• Complete your profile basics

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An essential part in getting laid using online dating is learning how to create an online dating profile that can naturally attract women to you.

Your online dating profile will either make (or break) you when it comes to having success using online dating.

If you have a very solid, attractive online dating profile that gets women intrigued by you and wanting to message you and begin talking to you, then you will find success with online dating.
If you have a very lame online dating profile that is extremely boring to women and lists nothing but facts, then you will end up failing miserably with online dating.

In this article I am going to show you how to write an online dating profile that attracts women and makes them want to contact YOU first.

But first let’s discuss what things you should NOT do when creating an online dating profile…

Common Mistakes Most Men Make When Creating An Online Dating Profile

There are a couple of really bad mistakes that most men are guilty of making when they attempt to create an online dating profile.

In this section, I will explain to you the most common profile mistakes that I see most men make, mistakes that YOU should avoid doing, if you hope to attract and date beautiful women online…

Common Mistake #1: Creating a Very Boring Online Dating Profile

Most men make this error when they create an online dating profile.

They make an online dating profile ONLY stating facts. This is NOT something interesting for a woman to read at all.

What do I mean by boring?

Most men’s online dating profile reads similar to the following:

“Hello, my name is John and I’ve just now been through a very terrible breakup with my girlfriend.

I am a car mechanic and I spend most of my free time watching Football and hanging out with my friends.

I am looking for a girl who I can share my life with and get to know.

I like the color blue, I love playing the piano, and I enjoy going hockey.

I hope to find my dream girlfriend on this site.”

BORING!!!

And the really sad part is that this is the way that most men’s online dating profiles read.

There is literally NOTHING in this man’s profile that is going to intrigue a girl and “capture” her interest.

There is NO mystery at all about this man, because he packaged himself into a small little box that screams “average”.

If you’ve spent a good portion on online dates using the “Boring Guy Profile” then it’s no wonder why you’ve failed to attract the women that you truly want.

To succeed at online dating you have to create a profile that is going to get a girls attention and KEEP IT.

You have to show and communicate to women online that you are different and NOT like the average unattractive and unsuccessful man.

Here are some other more common mistakes that men make when trying to create an online dating profile…

Common Mistake #2: Writing an Online Dating Profile That Is Too Long

Women come onto online dating sites to date and sleep with attractive men, NOT to read 1,000 word poems written by single unattractive men who have too much free time on their hands.

The attention span of females these days (especially young women) are extremely low. If you want to attract a woman with your online dating profile then you’ve got to write a short but very interesting and intriguing online dating profile.

You have to create an online dating profile that makes a woman WANT to finish reading the rest of your profile.

Common Mistake #3: Giving Away Too Much Unnecessary Information

When you create an online dating profile and give away TOO MUCH information about yourself unasked, you eliminate all of the intrigue and mystery that girls absolutely LOVE fantasizing about.

This again goes back to not putting too much unasked information in your profile.

Leave certain things about yourself up to the woman’s imagination.

Now, those are all of the bad things and mistakes that most men are guilty of making when creating an online dating profile.

Here’s how to create an online dating profile that kicks ass and gets women messaging YOU first…

How to Create An Online Dating Profile That Kicks Ass and Attracts Women

The first step in creating an online dating profile that kicks ass and is attractive to women is to understand this ONE simple key: You MUST keep your online dating profile short, with a bit of mystery to it, and very easy for a woman to read and understand.

Women’s attention spans online are very short and your goal has to be to write an online dating profile that very quickly captures their interest and intrigues them and makes them want to message and interact with you.

If you read the article “How to Talk to Girls Online and Set Up Dates” then you already know that your online dating profile should NOT be any longer than a few short paragraphs.

If you read that article then you ALSO know that listing a bunch of FACTS about your accomplishments and resume isn’t the solution to attracting women online either.

So then what is?

Write an online dating profile that conveys the message to women that you are ALREADY a guy who gets dates, sex, and has MANY women in his life.

In other words, in your online dating profile you want to come across as a guy who doesn’t take life too seriously and is simply out to have some fun, entertainment, and meet some more attractive women.

You want to communicate to women that you’re a guy who is all about living every day of your life as if it is your last. You ALSO want to communicate the message in your online dating profile that you’re a man who does NOT judge and finds women who are very comfortable with their sexuality sexy.

In other words, write sentences in your online dating profile that you’re a guy who doesn’t kiss and tell and who is all about keeping his sexual encounters with the women he meets discreet.

Trust me, women get turned on by a man who is able to do this correctly, because a man who is able to do this is rare.

So to keep it simple, here is the message that you want your online dating profile to convey: That your’e a guy who is all about having fun, meeting sexy women, and living your life to the fullest.

And also don’t forget to keep your online dating profile short, simple, and easy to read.

More Tips On How to Write An Online Dating Profile That Attracts Women

One thing that you want to do when you are writing an online dating profile is you want to keep some mystery involved but…

You ALSO want to convey the message to a woman that you are NOT a “Nice Guy”. You are a man who is after sex, you are looking to get laid, and also have some fun.

On top of that, the less that you say and reveal about yourself in your online dating profile, the better. You want to keep a woman guessing, keep her on her toes, not knowing EVERYTHING that there is know about you.

You want your online dating profile to come across like you’re an asshole, a “Bad Boy”, a guy who her parents would NOT want her hanging around.

The truth is that girls get massively turned on by guys who are able to communicate these traits and characteristics.

When you write your online dating profile in this manner, women online will become magnetically attracted to you, and the best part is, they won’t even know why.

Creating An Online Dating Profile For Women

They will become intrigued by your online dating profile and they will find themselves compelled to want to message YOU first.

How About My Online Dating Profile Pictures?

In the article “3 Online Dating Tips for Men That Will Help You Get Laid” I have already written extensively about your online dating profile pictures and what sort of message that your profile pictures need to convey.

But the gist of it is, the less profile pictures that you have on your online dating profile the better.

What To Say In A Dating Profile

Also, you want to make sure that you are NOT looking in the direction of the camera once your picture is taken.

On top of that, make sure that you are dressed fashionable and presentable. You want to make sure that you are always looking sharp.

How to Create An Online Dating Profile That Attracts Women

Having an attractive online dating profile written is essential if your goal is to meet and attract women online.

The guys who spend all of their time writing BORING online dating profiles are the same guys complaining and wondering about why women never respond back to their messages.

These guys just don’t get it and sadly, they never will. They will continue to fail at meeting and attracting women online.

But YOU…

After following these simple tips about creating an online dating profile, women WILL respond to your messages online, as a matter of fact, after reading your online dating profile, women will be compelled to message YOU first.

That’s how you succeed at seducing women online, by doing the exact opposite of what all of the other fools out there are doing. You separate yourself from the pack and you come across as a man who is unique and rare.

And really, that is what women are truly most attracted to.

– Malcolm Thomas

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